Two Months, Two NOs, One Becoming

🔁 Two Months of Divine Detour

On 25.04.2025, I received a job rejection — one I had quietly hoped would bring both financial flow and creative connection. I let it go.

And one week later, I wrote: “Rejection as Redirection.” A quiet vow to walk forward without bitterness, and let life speak through its re-routing.

Exactly two months later — 25.06.2025 — I received another “no.” This time, it was the final decision on my appeal to the University of Helsinki. Two years, three applications, and an alignment I believed in with my whole heart…

Closed.

And yet, again — no collapse.
No storm.
Only space.

Change your conception of yourself and you will automatically change the world in which you live. — Neville Goddard, The Power of Awareness


🍁 A Pattern Emerges: Not Rejected, Repositioned

There is something sacred about hearing “no” after you’ve stopped seeking external permission to matter.

The job didn’t accept me.
The academic gate didn’t open.
But in these past 60 days, something else did:

  • I watched myself shift from a seeker… to a creator
  • I wrote and completed my Declaration of Material Anchoring — and received unexpected provision
  • I applied for a new home — one that aligns with my family’s rhythm and sacred becoming

Each “no” didn’t shrink me.
It expanded my truth.

You do not need to become anything. You already are. Just remove the blocks and let it in. — Louise Hay, You Can Heal Your Life

Artistic golden liver surrounded by water and bamboo leaves, symbolizing emotional healing, anger release, and restoring inner flow.
When the liver softens, life begins to flow again
— not with force, but with freedom.

And more doors began to open:

  • I participated in a Haaga-Helia Alumni event, where I discovered the Open Path MBA Programme. I applied for the first 15 credits, with the first course starting in August 2025.
  • Through that same event, I joined a Language & Careers workshop, offering input on how to better support immigrants in learning Finnish.
  • One of the TE-Office’s advisors introduced me to KOSKE – the Competence Centre for Highly Educated Immigrants, where I received personalised guidance and career support.
  • I applied for a pedagogical program in Finnish, built on my BBA degree and certified YKI language proficiency — a new path rooted in lived knowledge.

💡 A New Door Appears

Just as the academic rejection landed, I discovered the Open Path MBA at Haaga-Helia — a route that recognises lived experience, Open University studies, and even full-time entrepreneurship.

No entrance exam.
No gatekeeping.
No convincing.

✨ A quiet door opened — without noise, but full of clarity.
✨ A reminder: when something isn’t flowing, it’s not punishment — it’s redirection to something already aligned.

Your soul purpose is not tied to a title. It’s tied to the energy you bring into the world. — Dr. Wayne Dyer, The Power of Intention


🍀 Today, I remember:

Even the so-called wrong steps become sacred when held in peace.

Each rejection is a mirror, drawing me deeper into my truth.

The more gently I align, the more swiftly the next door appears.

And here I stand — cradling a vision, ready to nurture it into light.✨


✨ Outcome: Real Growth

Here’s what changed — not just outside, but within:

  • I stopped attaching my worth to systems that couldn’t see me
  • I received €2,000 from an unexpected source right as I declared my readiness for stability
  • I applied for a new home that fits my life and rhythm — not just my location
  • I moved from hoping for approval to building my own foundation
  • I stepped into new networks and pathways — not because I was accepted, but because I chose to step in
  • I witnessed that peace doesn’t come from being chosen, but from choosing myself

This isn’t the end of a chapter. It’s the beginning of grounded becoming.


📚 Book Companion for this Journey

If you’d like to explore the depth of self-concept, inner alignment, and calm manifestation, I invite you to read:

The Power of Awareness by Neville Goddard. This timeless book mirrors the energy of this post — reminding us that we no longer need to wait to be chosen. We must choose ourselves first.


The Power of Awareness by Neville Goddard

By directing our imagination with conscious intention, we can bring our desires to life. It’s a timeless, poetic, and powerful companion to any journey of transformation.

The Power of Awareness by Neville Goddard
In this book, Goddard teaches how our awareness — and the images we consistently hold in our minds — shape our reality. → [Explore author’s books on Amazon]

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💌 Soul Retreat – A Blessing for You and Me

May we stop waiting for permission to become who we already are.

May our “no’s” be the clearing of the road, not the end of the path.

May we stop knocking on doors that are too small for our spirit.

May we write our own names on the entrances we are meant to walk through.

May we stop asking if we are ready — and start honouring that we already are.

To you, reading this:
If life has told you “not this way”,
trust that it is also whispering:
“but maybe this one.”

You are not falling behind.
You are stepping out of cages.
And sometimes, the map appears only after you stop walking the old path.


With love and grace,
Hoa Rompasaari




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Hoa Rompasaari is a personal growth mentor, writer, and founder of Be Bold Harmony. A Vietnamese-born soul now rooted in Finland, she guides individuals to rebuild self-trust, reframe their mindset, and gently create a life aligned with purpose — especially when starting anew in a foreign land.

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